Overcome dissatisfaction in your 20s fast with 3 thoughts
Three ways to overcome dissatisfaction in your 20s to embrace your uniqueness, develop your vision, and take healthy action.
Look at the Lamborghinis and Ferraris on Tik-Tok.
Or all those #goals pictures on Instagram.
It’s plain and clear to see.
There are more millionaires now than ever before.
There’s nothing wrong with people sharing their victories but…
It makes you feel like you don’t know what you’re doing in your life.
It is depressing.
You’re twenty-five and you’re struggling to make ends meet or in a job-stealing your soul.
You feel you have nothing to show for everything that you’ve gone through.
I feel your pain, but you have nothing to worry about.
You’re not stuck, lost, or a lost cause. If you read the three ways below, this actually could be your new beginning.
Here are three ways to overcome dissatisfaction and regret in your 20s and move forward in your life.
1) You’re special, in the best way
It is important to remember that your path is unique to your life. What you have to give is special because of where you are from and everything that has happened to you. You should not envy and shame yourself because there might be an 18-year-old millionaire.
Yes, they might have money, but they aren’t you. Your unique background, skillset, and expertise may warrant a more complex dream that takes a longer creation period. Satisfaction is not about money; it is also about scaling and increasing your value. Money comes naturally from an increase in value.
The way to remedy this feeling is to see what you already do that has immense value. From there devise a plan to scale and monetize this value. It may be a little slow at first, but as you are building and slowly seeing results you will begin to build enormous traction. Once that traction is built, your confidence will skyrocket and you’ll begin a plan to scale your value to a massive size.
2) Rewards later take time today
Instant gratification is great, but it has its downfalls. It’s ok to do with food, but not with money, business, or your personal life. There is no reason to rush because you have lots of time. Rushing things out of fear or frustration will make you throw something together just to satisfy your urge to do something. Real rewards take time- and being in your 20s you have lots of it.
Not taking the time to plan is the number reason why people don’t get satisfied in life. They just hope things will work out with minimal effort, instead of designing a system for consistent wins. You need to take time today to plan the life you want and how you plan to get there. Plan for consistent efficient execution for maximum rewards tomorrow.
You may not have endless time to make things work, but you shouldn't waste the time you do have. People are living longer and longer each year. This means that the doors are not closing in on you… they are actually opening up for you.
Most six-figure companies and million-dollar stock portfolios took at least 3-5 years to grow to their massive heights. Cut yourself a little slack. **Read the complete article for the bonus tip on this at the end.**
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3) You can pivot at anytime
You make over one million choices every day. That’s one million possibilities for what could happen in your life! This simple observation means that you never are really “stuck” in life. You just might need to make different choices.
If you want to change your life course, research the best choice for you and proceed full force. With the internet, you can find out how to do anything and there truly are no limitations.
The only way to make big choices stick is to follow through with aligned smaller decisions. These are the small things you probably don’t think about a lot. And the only way to make good small decisions is to remember your “why.” Your “why” is your personal and internal reason for getting unstuck.
Your “why” will uphold your main choice to change and also give you hope and faith to persevere no matter what.
The remedy for this feeling is to take time each day to relax and figure out what you want from life. Once you have that, develop a vision of you getting what you want. Internally choose that you will get your vision, and remember your “why” so you can follow through on how to get there.
Bonus Tip: You matter too.
Something to remember while on your path to your goals is not to work yourself to the bone. You can work relentlessly and care about yourself at the same time. If you stop caring about your wellness and your self-care, you will subconsciously drive yourself away from wanting your goals.
This is exactly what you don’t want.
You have to work smarter not harder! This is so that you get the maximum benefits out of each part of the process. Because you are in the right state of mind, you will be continuously building on a good foundation instead of a teeter-totter.
A practical way to practice this is to develop your goals first on a weekly scale. From these goals develop a daily schedule to ensure their completion. In this schedule, work in self-care/relaxation time according to the intensity of the tasks.
Conclusion
It’s normal to feel like a failure sometimes, or like you’re not where you’re supposed to be.
Traditional society has led us to a dead-end, and it’s not our fault that we feel lost sometimes.
But it is our responsibility to fix it.
Seeing someone else’s standards and achievements is a great inspiration, but you shouldn’t compare yourself to others too much.
The three tips above will help you to overcome feeling stuck and dissatisfied in your 20s.
You will be able to finally:
embrace your uniqueness
develop a vision
take healthy action
reap your rewards
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